In Britain, when there is nothing left on the plate, the cutlery is placed together, tines of the fork facing upwards, the blade of the knife pointing inwards, both in a 6.30 position, if you imagine the cutlery as the hands of a clock.
French and British style
This was done to show the coat of arms that was traditionally on that side contrary to Germany or the United Kingdom. In the United Kingdom, the fork tines face upward while sitting on the table. The knife should be in the right hand and the fork in the left.
Hold the knife in your right and the fork in your left hand
You may not put much thought into how you cut your food, but the royal family takes dining etiquette very seriously. Their royal eating habits include holding their knife in their right palm and fork in their left with the tines facing down.
Gently stir your soup to cool it instead of blowing on it. Spoon your soup away from you. You do not have to clean your plate. It is polite to leave some food on your plate.
It is considered very rude to push ahead in a line. Do not shout or be loud in public places and don't use excessive, demonstrative hand gestures when speaking. Staring is considered impolite. Do not be too casual, especially with the English language.
Never smack your chops, or talk with your mouth full. Take care not to take mouthfuls that are too big. o Talking while there is food in your mouth should be avoided at all costs. o When you have finished, place your knife and fork - with the tines facing upwards - together on your plate.
The fork is held in the left hand and the knife in the right. The fork should have the prongs facing down, and the knife is used to move food closer to the fork or support food so the fork can pick it up. Formally rest your knife and fork (prongs down) on your plate during mouthfuls and whilst chit chatting.
Follow the monarch's lead
“When dining with Her Majesty, no one should begin until she begins eating; similarly, when the Queen's cutlery goes into the finished position, everyone else should follow suit — regardless of whether there is food left on their own plates,” Willam Hanson told the Daily Express in 2022.
Napkin etiquette:
Typically, you should put your napkin on your lap, keep it folded in half with the fold towards your waist. You should do this soon after you sit, or as soon as your host does. Keep the napkin on your lap throughout the entire meal.
If we want to communicate to the waiter that we have finished the course on the plate and are using two pieces of cutlery, such as fork and knife, according to the English style these should be positioned as if the hands of the clock were at 6:30. Place the handles on the plate and always keep the blade inside.
It's considered rude to push your plates away, stack them up or hand them to the server. Place your loosely-folded napkin on the table just as you stand to leave, not before. Maneuvering through a meal doesn't have to be scary. Like all elements of etiquette, it boils down to common sense combined with kindness.
There is no formal dress code required to enter the Palace. Toilets and baby-care facilities are located in the garden, this is at the end of the route through the Palace. There are no toilet facilities at the start of the visitor route.
Always dress your best
Never show up for a royal meal underdressed. According to former royal chef Darren McGrady — who cooked for Queen Elizabeth, Prince Philip, Princess Diana, Prince William and Prince Harry — the royal family would come to meals in “dressy ball gowns.”
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Not really different from general eating etiquette: no elbows on the table, no slurping, use the soup (large) spoon, no picking up the soup plate/ bowl to move towards your face, scoop gently to avoid loud banging.
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The female guest is served first, and then it continues with all the guests until the hosts. If there are people of the same sex, instead, always start with the oldest. The hosts, on the other hand, are the last to sit down and the last to serve themselves dinner.
It is considered important to finish each item on the plate out of respect for the food being served. Traditionally, food should be eaten as it is served, without asking for salt or pepper.