Is it safe for a woman to use a bidet?

Author: Aiden Braun DDS  |  Last update: Friday, December 19, 2025

Bidets can help reduce irritation, especially for women with delicate skin. The gentle water spray used in bidets is much gentler on the skin than abrasive toilet paper. By avoiding rough wiping motions, women can minimize the risk of developing irritation, redness, and discomfort caused by using toilet paper.

Are bidets sanitary for females?

Though often thought of as a 'woman's product,' bidets are in fact hygienic for both sexes. This is due to the many health benefits they provide, such as improved anal and vaginal hygiene, reduced UTIs, and less discomfort when going to the bathroom.

Is there a downside to using a bidet?

However, excessive bidet use potentially causes anal pruritus and anal incontinence (AI). Physicians are advised to instruct patients with anal pruritus to avoid excessive cleaning of the anus and those with AI to discontinue bidet use.

What do doctors say about bidets?

It's important to follow usage instructions, though, particularly with jet stream pressure and water temperature. “But if it's working properly and you clean and sanitize it regularly, a bidet is a good alternative option for many people,” says Dr. Lee.

What are the side effects of a bidet?

Using a bidet is generally safe, but there might be some risks if you use it incorrectly. For example, make sure to keep the water pressure low if you have ulcerated skin on or near your genitals or anus, said Dr. De Latour. High water pressure may aggravate tears in your skin, increasing infection risk.

How To Use a Bidet

Why am I not clean after using a bidet?

If you're not feeling completely clean, take a “splash” course on how to use a bidet effectively. You might also need to adjust the water pressure or nozzle settings, which may affect the spray force or pattern. You can get clean and dry without toilet paper, but a quick dab is totally okay.

Are you all wet after using bidet?

Most bidets have customizable spray options, making it easy to control the pressure and spray angle so water only goes where needed (in other words, you won't get soaked). Still, it's normal to have some water left over after you wash.

Why did we stop using bidets?

It's clear that the widespread use of bidets in many countries has its advantages. The lack of popularity in the UK and US likely has to do with a combination of factors: unfamiliarity, lack of space, cost, and more.

Can bidet cause fissures?

In fact, a case of rectal mucosal prolapse syndrome associated with overuse of bidet has been reported (17), and another study concluded that anal fissure might be caused by bidets operated at high water pressures (18).

Should I use the bidet every time I pee?

Should you use a bidet after peeing? You can if you want to! Most people use bidets after pooping, but it's totally fine to use one after you pee. Some people enjoy using a bidet while they're menstruating since it can really help clean your genital area.

What is bidet etiquette?

Don't use the bidet as a toilet: It's designed for post-toilet cleaning, not for the disposal of waste. Avoid using too much toilet paper: It can lead to plumbing issues, especially in areas with sensitive systems. Watch the water pressure: Start low to avoid splashing or discomfort.

How to properly use a bidet as a woman?

Adjust the position of the bidet nozzle to ensure proper cleansing. Position yourself on the bidet seat, ensuring comfort and stability. Activate the water spray by pressing the appropriate button or lever. After cleansing, activate the built-in air dryer, and you are ready.

Can you use a bidet for pleasure?

Yes, the bidet's main function is to get us clean. But they can also help us to feel sexy. Aquaphilia is the sexual arousal from water and/or watery environments and bidetonism is the use of water spray from a bidet as a genital sexual stimulant.

Can a bidet aggravate hemorrhoids?

For example, if the water pressure and temperature are inappropriate or if you don't dry the area thoroughly after cleaning, a bidet can potentially worsen hemorrhoid symptoms.

Why are bidets illegal?

Backflow Prevention: Bidets and shattafs pose a high risk of backflow, which can lead to contamination of the main water supply. These devices are classified as fluid category 5, the highest risk level for cross-contamination.

Do you really not need toilet paper with a bidet?

Many modern bidet seats or bidet toilets come with built-in drying features that use warm air to dry you off quickly. You will no longer need toilet paper for wiping, cleaning, or drying.

What country uses bidets the most?

Italy is the only country where more than three-quarters of bathrooms have a bidet, one of only four countries where more than half have a bidet; and the only European country to be in the top ten. Bidets have been a legal requirement in newly-built homes in Italy since 1975 - and besides, Italians like them.

How much does a good bidet cost?

Some high-end bidet attachments can cost $2,000. The sweet spot tends to be at a price point between $500 and $1,000, where you get a sturdy seat with nice features but without over-the-top extras like voice commands (yes, really) and a backup battery.

Is it safe to use a bidet as an enema?

At-Home Enema, Bidet-Style

Using a bidet as an enema is safe and effective and is one of the reasons we designed the Vortex Wash.

How long to leave a bidet on?

Activate a wash function when ready to use the bidet sprayer – while icons vary slightly, most buttons that activate the sprayer nozzle will look like a stream of water. Spray for 20-30 seconds or until you feel clean. Activate the air dryer for about 30 seconds, if applicable. This icon usually looks like a fan!

What happens if you use a bidet too much?

While some studies have found that excessive use of bidets can lead to anal pruritus, or anal itching, and anal incontinence, and the bidet's nozzle surface can become contaminated with bacteria, possibly leading to infection, users of bidets swear by their effectiveness and ease-of-use.

How to use a bidet after pooping?

Straddle the bidet, sitting on the rim and align the anus with the column of spray water. Note that most bidets don't have seats, but are still meant to be sat upon; you just sit directly on the rim. Gradually open the spray valve until adequate pressure is achieved to flush the remaining feces from the anus.

Is a bidet more sanitary than wiping?

Not only can men wash with a bidet, but they also should. It's not just perfectly acceptable—it's gentler, more hygienic, and all-around better than wiping.

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